Ahhh...the "homegirl or group of girl's drama"..the trials never end as history will steadily repeat itself because of the female hormones I guess. I for one, don't have many "homegirls" so I don't have this issue. BUT, this is an everyday case for most females. We all go through it, *cue surprised tragedy music* The best friend betrayal scenario.
So what do you do? Your bff that you thought you could trust with your life has now stabbed you in the back (for w/e reason)and you're debating on weather to give her a second chance or kick her to the curb.
They say to always forgive and forget, but does that mean to remain buddies if she slapped you in the face or let the situation go along with your friendship?
I guess it depends on how bad the "slapping" is. For example, let's say your bff sleeps with your boyfriend, w/e the situation is to how "it just happened" who's fault is it really? Without saying both, if you had to choose one to point the finger to, who would be the one to "blame". The man, or the "bff"?
Sticky situation.
Personally I would hear her out & try to understand, & if I just wasn't comfortable I'd keep her at a distance. But completely cutting her off just seems harsh, especially if she's been a really good friend for years. But some people take the whole loyalty thing to a different stage. Definitely would never bring the broad around my man though.. just in case.. lol.
Just My Thought Of the Day. ♥
Monday, September 20, 2010
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oh geez lol catching up on all my missed dtotd are deff worthwhile but havent had this problem yet cuz i dnt have to many close female friends either but mmhmm stick situation for sure!
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