Do you think you should tell your partner EVERYHING? Past, present, or future, people have secrets. Whether it’s about your family, friends, or “little situations” you may have, like flirting over the net with other people, & not considering that to be a big deal, so they just don‘t mention it to there partner etc.. However, how do you know when your keeping too much to yourself? How do you feel about not sharing it all?
Personally, I think everyone is entitled to some kind of privacy in a relationship, as long as whatever it is you decide to keep to yourself, isn’t something that would hurt the other person that you‘re with, if they were ever to find out what you know somehow.
Just my thought of the day ♥
"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."
--Aristotle
….Really?
I think it depends on the "type" of relationship. If it's a one on one serious grown folks thing, then I say share but only when the trust and respect is there. I have found that some people will throw things up in your face in the heat of the moment of an argument that could end up being detrimental to the whole relationship. I dont believe that "everything" has to be spoken on, but if its something that could come back, then by all means share with your partner. Now I am not saying serious things like criminal, drug history, previous children etc. Those should be a given. Take Care D'Jai
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