Can You Have Your Cake And Eat It Too?

We'll in my opinion..

Lots of men do it, & they do get away with it, I even dare to say, "karma" kinda skips over them.

Why is it that when a man finds a woman that is near "perfection" in his eyes, he still wants to play the field? I've heard of a couple of situations where it literally left my jaw open from shock!

Yup, it's the case of the emotionally unstable insecure man. He gets ahold of a great woman that he "loves" and would never want to loose but still plays the field. Why is that? we'll I think its like this, you get a girl shes awesome, but you still want to do what you do, because you cant "resist" a sexy chick, but at the same time you don't want to let wifey go because you don't want anyone else to have her.

Now because I am not a man, I can't really give an "answer" to this, but I tell you what I think which is some men just want to have there cake and eat it to. & depending on there situation, unfortunatly sometimes they get away with it.

Now in actually trying to understand why this is...can I say, it MIGHT not be "all" his fault. Just saying, if a man has been a certain way his whole life, can the woman really be that "shocked" when the behavior doesn't cease? Can a woman really expect for a man to just drop all his bad habbits once he meets her?..So whose to blame? The men with the bad "habits" or the foolish women who knew of there bad habits and decided to be with him anyways expecting him to change over night?

We'll this question seemed to lead to just more questions. Is there even a right or wrong in this situation..who knows. Maybe this is one of those "only the strong survive",& a "you should go ask grandpa & gradma how they did it" ..if there still together.