Monday, July 5, 2010

Making Body Alterations, As If You're Tailoring A Jacket x_x

Woman, out here, there is just so many who are so lost, making alterations to there bodies as if they were tailoring a jacket. It's crazy.

Like bullies that would peer pressure kids to doing whatever, now it's women who seem peer pressured by society somehow to change there bodies for what they think is beauty. All because that exaggerated hour glass shape is what our culture has become obsessed with?

Now for the extra sad part, the reason why I think girls do this to themselves goes as far back as, them being raised without fathers and feeling like them changing themselves to attract more men will fill that "love gap" that they never had (<-- believe it or not I've heard that a lot.) Or maybe because they were picked heavily throughout there adolescence so decided to make the surgery move to feel "prettier", & more accepted for what today's "beautiful" is.

These females are usually the girls with the most fuc*ed up attitudes thinking they're the sh*t with layers of haters (b.k.a Imaginary haters) Partying all night not caring about sh*t in the world but what they look like in the mirror & having the newest Gucci or Louis bag. Money, drugs, sex, attention, (& a man who provides it all)

Let's move on to that shall we...
So the "perfectly built plastic women" are wondering why they can't keep a stable relationship.
For one, they go into the relationship for the wrong reasons, thinking, "aiight he got bread, so I need to trap this nigguh" (<-- i've actually heard this come out of a FEW females mouth, I'm not a snitch, so i won't ever say, but I bet if you tried to guess who, if you know the industry, your guesses wouldn't be to off if not exact.)

Then a lot of the girls usually staring off with an intent, sometimes end up actually falling in love (or so they think)with the dude they was pose to just lock down. Now they're stuck, cause the dude never really looked at them like that, they looked at them like "yeah she fun, wild, don't trip, that's my bit*h, etc.." But they never respected them as wifey from the get. (Then again some dudes do get caught in it, & do end up loving the female. Although this turnout is rare)

So the dude ends up bouncing, and the girl is left alone, wondering "why". I guess this would be the perfect time to say, be careful with what your true intentions are with someone because if you can't handle that "karma bounce back" then you'll usually end up scared emotionally for the wrong reasons..ladies (& gentlemen).

Eventually, your true colors do shine brighter then the artificial light you try to portray.
Next thing you know you're alone with nothing but your "homegirls" (that are usually as fake as they are)and no man to call husband, cause you were unhappy with yourself from the get because you never learned how to love YOURSELF so you would be able to love someone else. Trying to fill voids you have the wrong way.

Sad cycle, but so common where I live, it's almost the "norm".

(I left out a lot in this thought, I think from all I've seen I can write a book on this. Miami is crazy.)

We'll this has just been another "Dade's Thought Of The Day" Hope you enjoyed it, if not at least learned something from it.

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