How Far Would You Go To Please Your Man/Woman?

Nowadays, men & women are way more sexually open in relationships. Married couples are attending swinger parties, couples are having threesomes, and guys are letting there girlfriends have girlfriends. Defiantly the fuss isn't about little issues like porn. Instead of the guy hiding his porn collection the female now has her stash right next to his & they pop in a flick and enjoy it together. But would you make some of those vids come to life in your relationship?

I've read on certain relationships, for ex. Will Smith & Jada, Will say's the secret to there successful relationship is there open marriage. Basically, if he wants to smash a chick its cool, if she wants to sleep with a dude its cool, & if they want to get a girl to join, we'll you get the picture. Are you afraid to take these kinds of risks with your mate? What are the pro's and con's?

I guess the pro's to this would be, your guy/girl could never really "cheat" if you both decide to have an open relationship. & It probably really keeps the relationship spicy.

Now for the con's, men will be men, so if your dude slips one day & isn't too safe with a chick, he could bring something extra home that wasn't invited, hence STD's. Or what if he ends up falling for the girl that was just supposed to be "the fun", vice versa. Men, would you be able to handle seeing your girl go out with another guy & be cool with it?

I know that people try to apply "rules" when they take the open relationship route, but can you really restrict someone like that & yet let them be "free" at the same time?

I can't say it doesn't work because lot's of people do it & have been together for more then 10 years. Sooo *shrugs*.

Question is, are you comfortable enough within yourself and with your partner to try this out?

Just my thought of the day ♥