Loyalty vs. Faithfulness

So today I was reading an article on men & there cheating habits.. instead of pointing the finger & blaming, I always try to understand. (well most of the time..I try lol)

Here's an excerpt from what I read today. "Men are not by nature monogamous animals, and they often have to fight their sexual urges, which many do very successfully. If a guy could live his perfect fantasy life, he would have a wife and a new fling whenever he felt like it."

Ladies..True or False? Men..Agree or Disagree?

If this is the truth then why is it that women (most women) believe the opposite and feel that a man should be loyal to his woman... Ahh! see, that's the thing, watch what you ask for. See loyalty & faithfulness are two different things. I believe men can be loyal, faithful on the other hand, ehh, not so much.

If "Men are not by nature monogamous animals", then why do we have such a hard time excepting it? So many questions so little time. This leads back to the, “Being loyal, but not faithful” quote from back in the day. Would you rather a man do his thing but never leave you or dare disrespect you in your face, or him be temporally faithfull to you the time you all are together then him move on to the next one?

Don't know about you, but I am deff the "we gon' stick it out & make this sh*t work, my grandparents did it, so it's possible!" , kind of chick, but then again that's just me.

If he's not cheating, think about this, a man will be as faithful as his options allow him to be. Do you honestly think if he had the chance to get away with it he wouldn't?

I think that if, we as woman, would kind of stop "fooling' our selves, we would be running sh*t a lot easier/ making it less stressful & more successful.

Just my thought of the day ♥