Guys say they want this or that, but I can’t help to have the thought in the back of my mind say “This dude really doesn’t know what he wants, he has no idea, how can I trust what he‘s saying to me right now.” hence to why they flip flop back and forth so much, when it comes to whatever, hobbies, decisions, etc..
I wonder why? Why is it that woman were made to mature faster then men? We know what we want at an “early” (I say early-mid-twenties) age, but guys at that age are still running around thinking with the “wrong head.” That really sucks. (& if you‘re a dude saying “I don‘t do that!” it might be because you don‘t have option A. B. & C. standing in front of you saying “you can have us all at once baby.“ ß hypocritically used hypocorism)
Lol seriously though, sometimes it just makes females want to throw in the towel and say “you know what, I’ve had enough of the games, I’m not dating again until the guy that comes around, I feel like deserves to even have a chance to be with me.” But then by doing that who are we really punishing, the opposite sex or ourselves? I say; At the end of the day you can hold out for as long as you want, but if you don’t take risk’s you’ll never find “him” or let “him” find you. But, as you know, with any risk you take there are the possible consequence.*sighs* What is a girl to do?
Is there a certain age where a man starts to realize what he really wants in life, & is that age usually to late? For example my brother will admit that he didn’t really mature till he hit 30. He’s a good guy, has his stuff together, but his “issue” was that he was a REAL “ladies man”, (b.k.a the dude was a man whore lol.) So sad to say, when he finally got his act together, the girl that he really wanted, he lost out on, because when he had her, he didn’t appreciate her.
So guys can say they know what they want, but 9/10 they’re honestly not sure. & Can you blame them? With all the options out there, all the different kinds of woman, ethnicities, sizes, types of personalities.. Uhh.. Maybe so cause we figure it out, but guys on the other had have a little more trouble doing so.
So honestly IDK! Maybe it’s not the guys fault, they were just made that way..(or does that sound like I’m making a lame excuse to cover there a**?)
Whatever the case there are just so many questions, with so little time. But in due time, questions are answered, they always are, I think us as humans are just impatient as sh*t. *shrugs*
Just my thought of the day ♥
Monday, September 13, 2010
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Sounds like you're making a lame excuse to cover their ass! lol ;). But, there are options out there for women as well, different kinds of men too, ethnicities, sizes, & types of personalities, etc.. And I think men are more impatient than women (alot of men can't wait to have sex w/ you. More women can wait on it, but men want it when they want it) and its like if you don't give it to them soon enough, then they're more likely to drop you, and move on to the next, Or some guys may still keep you around, but he'll definately have another
ReplyDeletechick(s) on the side to "get it" from. I just don't think there's any excuse for cheating. I mean Why be in a relationship if you're gonna cheat? Just have friends w/ benefits, don't be in a relationship if you can't be faithful/loyal to just that ONE chick.