Monday, December 6, 2010

The "Roles" of Men & Women

It’s no shocker that these days the men complain about the woman being to independent. They wonder what happened to the “house wife” role, the woman who cooked, cleaned, raised the kids, & gave you back rubs + endless pleasure.

I hear that, but what happened to the “MAN”, the alpha males?! Seems like the men want there women to have there “womanly duties” on lock which is 100% understandable. But umm… “Honey, I need some more shelves in the kitchen can you put them up”.. Most likely not. Majority of the guys I know these days don’t even know how to change a tire!

So explain to me, which sex really lost sight of the “roles“ played in a relationship? Is it the “over independent women“, or the “I’m not Mr. Fix it men?”

Do you think the woman are to independent maybe because they can’t depend on men anymore?

Questions, comments, concerns? Leave your comments!

Just my thought of the day ♥

p.s.
(Not making excuses for either sex, there is none! We need to both get it together in my opinion!)

2 comments:

  1. Great Thought and a very complicated. Me personally, I WORK, always have. Now there are honestly less and less "Mr. Fix it's" out there. The Men are gettin mani's and pedi's too now. Many (not all) men have become so hard to depend on that many(not all) women have figured out, learned either the hard way or willing how to handle All of their biz, this is why and how the roles have changed. It's very unfortunate because I truly feel this independent state of mind hinders many women(not all) from truly letting a "man" feel "needed" the way they need to at times, its such a mess. The fix, I dont know. But I do know we make Love, which is the sweetest richest gift you could ever give so Complicated.

    Take care D'jai

    Heart

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  2. You hit the nail on the head. Women have become overly independent because they have not had men they can depend on. As in any case, you can not speak for ALL men and ALL women. Unfortunately, what men do not realize is most (again not ALL) women would be willing to be a bit more submissive in exchange for a MAN (not a boy)that is willing to play the MAN role.

    AJK

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