Making a hasty decision is one of the worst things you can do, especially if the options of the outcome from your decision can turn out to be bad, or worse.
My best advice would be to just, well, sleep on it. The way you are feeling when you're upset or angry might will sway you to think a certain way. It can be an argument, or debate, w/e the case is, if you become irate over a situation, your emotions will alter what you will say, trust and believe that if you weren't so upset, 80% of the time you wouldn't say those things in the first place.
Not only that, but sleeping on it gives you a real chance to think, once you awake you will notice that you are more calm, or at peace. It will allow you to truly judge the situation for what it is and decide the best outcome on what to say or do, and a lot of times you will awake realizing that the "problem" is possibly way smaller then you thought it was anyways.
On top of all that, you will feel no regret. Waking up and saying "So glad I didn't say that last night!" will prove this point. I include patience into one of the keys to life, when you're patient, it literally can make a world of a difference. Additionally, I KNOW that this is not as easy as it sounds, we all know sometimes it's hard to hold your tongue at times, but if you can find the strength to do it, it'll all be better in the end. It's not worth losing a relationship over you not being able to control your mouth at times where emotions are tender. So the next time you want to scream, yell,
or say something crazy to someone, just say "you know what, we'll talk about this tomorrow" walk away, and sleep on it!
Just my thought of the day ♥
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